Wednesday, April 22, 2009


As many of you know, Andy and I will be married in three days. I have been planning this wedding for over a year and dreaming about it even longer. Andy has been so supportive and understanding with my intermittent melt downs. He has sat with me and allowed me to vent my frustrations and feelings of failure and worry. He has held my hand and listened, knowing that optimistic words would only anger me. Andy, you are the best. I love you more than I could ever fully express. I am so honored to become your wife.
My parents have been unbelievably kind and generous by always asking what I want and striving to make our wedding everything I could wish. Andy’s parents have been fantastic, offering ideas and encouragement. April has planned the greatest parties and I am so grateful to her for being fabulous. Levi was a trooper and was prepared to get his measurements taken AGAIN because of our minor mess up with the tuxedo place. My friend Kirsten has been my cheerleader and a truly understanding spirit (as she lived through her own wedding just seven months ago). These are just a few people who have helped me with the largest burden I have ever faced.
Looking back over the year, there are a few things I would change, but not many. I joke that ‘If I had it to do all over again, I would elope,’ but that’s not true. It is so important to me to share this milestone with as many people as possible. There are so many people who have touched my life; it would be tragic if any of them missed it.
I am so excited for my wedding. I am so excited to share the most important day of my life with my family and friends. I am excited to promise my life to Andy. I am excited to dance the night away. I can’t think of a better way to celebrate such an important event than with a beautiful ceremony and a giant party.
To those of you who will be able to celebrate with us, you are invaluable to me. Your presence is an affirmation of your encouragement and agreement. It means so much that you will share your time with us. So many of you are traveling from out of state (some out of the continental US) and I am deeply touched by your gesture. Thank you for understanding the importance of this day for us. You are truly marvelous friends and we are so grateful for your presence in our lives.
To those of you who are celebrating with us from afar, thank you. You are loved and will be dearly missed.
So friends, this is my last blog as Candace Lynne Conyers.
Friends and family, you mean the world to me.


Angela said...

YAY!!! I'm SOOOOOOOOOOO excited for you!!!! I miss you, love ya, and hope your day is more than you could ever imagine!!! I can't wait to see pictures, and am certainly cheering you two on from Texas!!!!

The Snells said...

congrats...three (well two days as its now after midnight..)early :) I hope its everything you and andy could hope for! Scott and i wish you the best of luck!

Anonymous said...

You are a jerk. First of all, you're taking Andy from me. You know that we are meant to be together. Secondly, you failed to mention my awesomeness in this blog. You know how much I enjoy seeing my name in print. Just for that I'm going to change the tempo in your first dance 2-3 times. Goodluck with your ever-changing foxtrot, Candace. I wish I was kidding; that I could just give you the j/k and spout some insincere acclaim and sentiment. I simply cannot.

With deep lament and rue,

Seriously, how hard would it have been to be all like, "and Brett was also nice..." somewhere in that blog. You're just getting lazy.

Candace said...

Brett is nice.


Mandee Shaffer said...

I love you darlin. You knwo I'm there in spirit. I love you so much. I wish so bad I could be there. It is killng me. I love you tons and I'll see you in a month

Andrew and Ariel said...

It was a great wedding! Now post some pictures!